You've been running from it, or rehashing it in the shower, in the car, at 2am. 

 

You have an unhinged script of what you want to say, but you don’t know how to say it without blowing up your entire relationship (or life).

 

The cost of avoiding or hyper fixating on conflict is reflected in every area of your life and psyche. 

 

There is a secret third option between saying nothing and burning it all down: conflict. 

 

Conflict done with clarity, courage, and an open heart. 

 

CONFLICT SCHOOL is a 6-week course for people who are ready to stop avoiding and start repairing. We'll teach you how to navigate the riskier conversations of your life and use them to build something fortified.

 

In 2025, people walked away having finally said the thing they'd been sitting on for years. Relationships were repaired. Some were released (with grace). People told us it changed how they fight, and how they live.​

By the end of CONFLICT SCHOOL, you’ll have a new roadmap for conflict, the tools to build personal relationships that are actually fulfilling, and deeper awareness of not only your conflict story, but how the culture of conflict influences everything. 

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This work is not just about how you show up in conflict

but also how you show up to your entire life. 

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And the life you've always wanted?

It's on the other side of conflict. 

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6/2 MODULE ONE — THE CULTURE OF CONFLICT
 

​You know that saying: "Be the change you wish to see in the world?" 

Annoying right?

 

Well, we create the culture of conflict we all have to live in every time we point fingers at each other or avoid hard conversations. We create a culture of betraying and disrespecting ourselves and others; we perpetuate "boomer energy."

 

It's time we create and tend to a new garden -- an orchard that reaps fruits for our shared future. So, before we can plant the seeds for you to grow into conflict, we need to understand the soil we're operating in: the culture of conflict itself.  

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You will pick a current conflict in your life to use as practice throughout this course. 

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MODULE TWO — YOUR PERSONAL CONFLICT STORY

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Are you burning down your own house?

In conflict, do you posture, do you collapse, do you fawn, do you run?

Do you hate how your parents did conflict? Then why do you sound like them?

We'll map your conflict history & heritage and any limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck. 

 

This session isn't just about looking at YOU and what you bring to the table in disagreements, but also examining the vibe you bring in to all of your relationships. ​​​

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MODULE THREE — LOOK TOWARD THE OTHER
 

What if your reputation was forgiveness?

The moment you want to win, everyone loses. 

This is where we teach you to abandon adversarial thinking, and to start seeing yourself as part of a relationship. 
In this session we are getting deeply curious about the people that we are mad at.

This is when the course becomes about skill building. ​The focus is on self-regulation skills so you can grow your capacity for deeper connections.

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What matters the most is not being the same as your conflict partner, but building the kind of relationship that can hold difference. 

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MODULE FOUR — CONFLICT IS INTIMACY 

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What if we told you that the cost of connection is high sensation?  

We teach you to run toward the hard shit. The deep connection you desire is on the other side of the intense conversations you've been avoiding. 

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We'll investigate all of the possibilities and study the most productive path. We want you operating from your ideal outcome. 

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That means studying:

• accountability

• apologies

• how to hear hard shit

• a pace of conversation that actually works ​
   

Conflict is an orchard of intimacy - a space that is profoundly fruitful, if we're willing to show up and bring the orchard to life.

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MODULE FIVE — THE ART OF REPAIR 

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Now comes the part no one talks about: the after.
How do you repair in the first place!?

What happens when things don’t go how you hoped?
What if repair isn’t possible?

With rupture comes possibility.

 

Repair is how we gather the mending supplies; there's the hard conversation, and then there's how we soothe & reconnect. AND THEN, how to walk away from a relationship without leaving ourselves behind.   

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In this session, we turn our attention to the soil of our relationships — tending it with steadiness, care, and a grounded, long-range vision.

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MODULE SIX — TRUST THE PROCESS 
 

Intimacy requires aftercare. Yes, we want you to fight well, but our goal is for you to build strong relationships that can withstand the test of time. Because conflict is never just about now. It’s about the garden you’re growing for years to come.​​

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This is about becoming who you've always dreamed of in conflict and in your life. ​

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These sessions will weave together relational theory, practices for daily life, and rich opportunities for sharing, creating an engaging and transformative learning experience.  Are you ready to say YES to conflict? Let's get started today.​​